Wednesday, November 22, 2006

The Library

It's my new love.

It's free, like love should be, it doesn't expect much except that I spend time with it. I can go for quickees or long durations and it's even set up something online for those lonely nights when I just can't get to it in person.

We have a bond. I think this may be it. I see a future between the two of us.

Ding Dong
On a happy but sad note. My doorbell just rang and it's just before 2pm. I'm not expecting guests. Approaching the door I see a man and a package, more like a bouquet actually, and what girl doesn't adore the receipt of flowers?

Guy: Wendy?
Me: No, but I can be.
Guy: #Something# Communications?
Me: No, but I'll still take the flowers.
Guy: 231 R----
Me: Yes
Guy: Don't worry, I'll give them a ring on the number they left.
Me: *Sigh* Okay then. (closes door slowly in defeat)

Beautiful flowers and a cheerful delivery guy. But alas, neither was meant for me.

I wish my name was Wendy today.

Monday, November 20, 2006

Domi and Stronach















Too bad strange blondie is blocking the 'brunette' stronach.


Domi and Stronach sitting in a tree
Trying to deny the hypocrisy
Out in a club
Giving us a snub
If they wanted privacy
They should have gone somewhere else.

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Hot

Jamie Lidell

Just saw him live at Lee's Palace last night and he is hot. Not as in dreamy ooh I want to get me a piece of him hot, but his voice and rhythm, charisma and sound surely make up for it.

Get a taste of him if you can.

Sunday, November 12, 2006

Who's Life is it anyhow?

I can see it in her eyes. The sadness, pleading with me to end her pain. That in itself knocks the wind out of me.

THE PAST
My grandmother is 86 years young. I would love to say that she is strong and vibrant but she is not. The past few weeks have been emotional and tiring for everyone in this household.

'A-Pau', what I call her, has been struggling to keep up for a very long time. A few weeks back she felt intense stomach pain and was taken to the hospital and there she stayed for two weeks.

Kept 'in hospital' for observation, she was strapped to an IV without permission to eat or drink, not even water. Clear headed and able to walk prior to her trip, a week in at the hospital and she could no longer recognise people, forgot where she was, and became too weak to lift her legs or sit up on her own.

One begs to question what the hospital was doing to remedy my grandmother's health? Having worked via volunteer and co-op in my youth at the hospital in question - I fear I know all too well how the nurses treat their patients. This of course doesn't apply to all staff, but there are far too many employees that pay too little attention which makes it appear the norm, a very disgusting norm for an extremely care and service based industry. Nurses and staffing is another issue that I won't divulge into right now.

Shifted from one department to another, one nurse to another, one doctor to another, we were never given a straight answer or a direct person to contact until having been a week in at the hospital. Without knowledge or comfort, my grandmother lay in foreign bed, further in pain with hunger and thirst to add to her despair.

THE PRESENT
Finally having figured out the cause of her discomfort, A-Pau is back at home in the comfort of her own bed and room, but things are no longer the same.

A-Pau cannot walk properly on her own. She does not have the strength to sit for long durations and gets tired and out of breath from blinking it seems.

Yesterday she spilled water on herself whilst trying to drink in the middle of the night. In an attempt at keeping her independence she moved about her room to get a new shirt and change.

Taking courses which all end this month, I've been up nights finishing off assignments and studying for exams. In this case, staying up late had its silver lining.

3:00 am

Thump.
I distinctively heard a thump and ran upstairs.
Heading straight for my grandmother's room, I pushed open the door and found her lying on the floor half naked with blood streaming from her head. In a quiet whimper she looked up at me and said in Burmese "A-Pau dey bee bee" a few times. It translates to Grandma's already dead.

After waking up the house, we (parents, an aunt and I) tended to my grandmother's injuries. No severe damages but another shot at my grandmother's already torn confidence and self esteem - I could see that all she wanted was for the headaches to end. Using a group effort, we iced my grandmother's head, cleaned her up, changed her and tried to stay calm. Complaining about the pain in her head, she whispered that she was going to die. I could see the dagger pierce my mother's heart as she tried to comfort her mother and asked her not to say such things.

A-Pau is as well as she can be for now.

We are holding on to her for dear life - but whose?


Grandma, June 2005

Monday, November 06, 2006

Vegetarianism: Environmental Reasons

I don't eat meat - though that's not entirely true anymore.

When I was young I was like that of many other children, easily influenced. My grade 3 teachers were energetic, charismatic and environmentalists. We raised funds to help save the rainforest, learnt about the beluga whales and the perigreen falcons and we discussed ways to solve world hunger and other global issues. Our participation in World Earth Day and other events led us to be the newspaper numerous times, who doesn't want to see children trying to save the world? It boosts hope. All this goodwill sucked me in. I wanted more action, but at eight years old I didn't think I could do much, except - cut down on meat.

This led to the total removal of meat for most my life. Living through various stages of vegetarianism, I'm currently of the pescatarian branch after working in Japan in 2000.

I'm often asked for reasons why I'm a vegetarian. Here are some of the reasons that triggered the change in my dietary habits almost 20 years ago.

Environmental Reasons to be Vegetarian
With the obvious exception of humans, it's odd to think that any animal could seriously damage the environment. Beef cows, however, are giving it a go, and apparently they've been successful. Conservationists now refer to the animals as "hoofed locusts," and not only because they trample, pollute, and destroy all land they graze. Studies also show that cows play significant roles in deforestation, soil erosion, water scarcity, global warming, depletion of fossil fuels, and loss of biodiversity. Odd as it may sound, the environmental impact of the cow is perhaps even more calamitous than the automobile.

Of course, the problem is not really with the cows, but with eating them. Every time you swallow a piece of beef, you consume both food and natural resources twice. The same land, labor, water, and fuel used to raise, slaughter, package, and transport livestock is also needed to grow and harvest feed grain. And this double use of resources leads to a seemly preposterous statistic: while the average vegetarian consumes between 300 and 400 pounds of grain per year, the average meat-eater consumes over 2000. Of course, eighty percent of the meat eater's total is first digested by cows, pigs, and chickens. Needless to say, this process is both and extravagant and inefficient.

Given the above, anyone environmentally conscious enough to recycle should also consider reducing his or her meat consumption. Doing so is arguably more beneficial to the environment, and, in many ways, easier. While it's no picnic sorting and recycling trash, not eating beef requires little or no work at all. You only have to pick something else on the menu.

Finally, here's a modest proposal. Why not cut beef production in half and convert the cattle ranches of America's tornado alley into wind farms? Given the growing scarcity of fossil fuels, surely the plan holds enough economic potential to offset resulting job losses in the cattle industry. Until that happens, though, here are a few facts to consider about the environmental impact of the beef industry.

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Nearly half of the total amount of water used annually in the U.S. goes to grow feed and provide drinking water for cattle and livestock.
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In the US, 33% of all raw material consumption is used solely in the production of meat, egg, and dairy products.
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The annual beef consumption of an average American family of four requires more than 260 gallons of fuel. The result is 2.5 tons of carbon dioxide released into the atmosphere, or about as much as the average car over a six month period.
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According to some estimates, supplying the entire world with a western, meat-centered diet would deplete the planet's oil reserves within ten years.
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Cattle produce nearly 1 billion tons of organic waste each year. The average beef cow produces more than 47 pounds of manure every 24 hours.
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From 1995 to 1997, more than forty animal waste spills killed some 10.6 million fish.
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85% of topsoil loss in the US is the result of livestock production, with each pound of steak resulting in 35 pounds of eroded US topsoil.
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260 million acres of US forests have been cleared for cropland to produce grain for livestock.
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From 1960-1985 40% of the Central American rainforests were destroyed to create gazing land for cattle.
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According to the US General Accounting Office, more plant species in the United States have been eliminated or threatened by livestock grazing than by any other cause.
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In an effort to combat "nuisance" animals preying on livestock, in 1989 the US Department of Agriculture killed 86,502 coyotes, 7,158 foxes, 1,220 bobcats, 236 black bears, and 80 wolves. Four hundred pet dogs were inadvertently killed in the process.
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Cows produce significant amounts of carbon dioxide, methane, and nitrous oxide, three gases largely responsible for global warming. Through daily belching and flatulence, cows emit over twelve percent of the total methane released into the atmosphere per year.

Further articles and information can be found at: www.meatjunkie.com.

Friday, November 03, 2006

Oh Toronto!



















Dearly Beloved,

For those of you that constantly whine that 'there's nothing to do in the city' ... I was in a sharing mood.

For those of you elsewhere in the country, head over for a visit!

For those 'temporarily' overseas, I'm pouting, I very much dislike you out of envy and jealousy, and I hope to see you soon.

Enjoy!
Ft


Looking for buck a shot oysters?

Hit the Flatiron & the Firkin on Thursday between 6:30 and 9:30
Flatiron & the Firkin


Care for some Jazz instead?

JAZZ VENUES:
1. Boiler House
2. Opal Jazz Lounge
3. Sopra Upper Lounge


Itching for a cheap performance?

WICKED - Canon Theatre
Wicked - Mirvish
Wicked, about the musical
Special deal (if you can get it)
Each day, 2 hours prior to show time, people who present themselves at the Canon Theatre box office will have their names placed in a hat and then thirty minutes later, names will be drawn for 20 box seats at $25 each, cash only. This lottery is available only in-person at the box office, with a limit of two tickets per person.

The Canadian Opera Company
Opera for a New Age
Patrons under the age of 30 are invited to purchase $20 opera tickets. Available one week before opening night, Opera for a New Age tickets are available for all COC mainstage productions. Opera for a New Age tickets will be available in person at the Four Seasons Centre, 145 Queen St. W., Toronto, or through COC Online* using the Promo Code "DEAL." Tickets go on sale at 10 a.m.

General Rush
Subject to availability, general public rush tickets are offered in the 3C/4C/5C areas at $20 each as of 11 a.m. on the day of a COC performance.

The National Ballet of Canada
Limited rush seats are available at $30 for every production. These can be purchased in person at the box office from 11am on the day of the performance.

CANSTAGE
Canstage
($20 cheap seats)
Current Plays:

Of Mice and Men
By John Steinbeck
Directed by Dennis Garnhum
George and his simple-minded friend Lennie are outsiders trying to make a living in a difficult world that does not welcome abnormality. Of Mice and Men is a gripping classic tale of two lost souls struggling to find their place until "the best laid schemes of mice and men" go horribly awry. This is a timely survival story for a world that breeds and fears outsiders.

The Story of My Life
Music and Lyrics by Neil Bartram
Book by Brian Hill
Directed by Michael Bush
Musical Director, Marek Norman
Alvin and Thomas met in Grade One. They shared the battlefields of childhood and adolescence, inseparable until one moved to the big city and their lives took different directions. The Story of My Life is a tender, musical celebration of lifelong friends and the power of a friendship that can tie two people together forever, no matter where they are.

The Toronto Symphony Orchestra
Sign up for tsoundcheck if you're between the ages of 15 - 29.
Tsoundcheck
$12 cheap seats


FANCY SOME FREE STUFF?

DISTILLERY DISTRICT
The Distillery District
Galleries are always free, when opened.

ROM
The ROM
Sadly no longer Free on Fridays it is reduced from its standard $18.00 to a discounted $5.00.
Free the last hour of opening daily.

AGO
The AGO
Free Wednesdays from 6:00 - 9:00

GARDINER MUSEUM
The Gardiner Museum
Free the first Friday of the month

BATA SHOE MUSEUM
The Bata Shoe Museum
Free on Thursdays from 5:00 - 8:00

FREE EVENTS
Free Events

FREE LUNCH TIME CONCERTS AT THE FOUR SEASONS CENTRE OF PERFORMING ARTS
Concerts by the COC and NBofC


LET LOOSE WITH LIVE MUSIC
NOW Listings
Toronto.com Listings
Where.ca Listings


WANT TO KNOW SOME OF MY FAVES ARE IN TOWN?

Opera
The Canadian Opera Company
Opera Atelier
Toronto Opera Repetoir
Want to see great opera and music talent at a more than reasonable price?
UToronto Music Department

Ballet
The National Ballet of Canada
Sleeping Beauty , the ballet (until the 18th of Nov)
National Ballet at the Four Seasons Centre of Performing Arts (just opened this fall)

Coming Soon ...
Yakudo
Taiko Drumming at the Glenn Gould Studio
Saturday November 18th

Thursday, November 02, 2006

Ooo - soh?!#

Absolutely insane. Terribly funny.

Japanese Prank Videos:

massage chair

And just when you think it can't get any worse, it does ....

port o potty